Perhaps the Reason....



 Have you asked the question, "Why?" lately? Are you wondering why things are happening as they are? Have you stopped to think about the reasons why God allows certain events and people into our lives?

In the book of Philemon, Paul addresses his friend, Philemon, regarding his runaway slave, Onesimus. Onesimus had stolen money from Philemon and had fled to Rome where he met Paul. Paul shared the Gospel with Onesimus and his life was changed. Paul now pleas with Philemon to forgive Onesimus and to accept him back, not as a slave, but as a brother in Christ.

A couple verses in this little book stand out to me...."Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back for good...no longer as a slave" (v. 15-16). Are there any "perhaps" when it comes to God's providence? The fact that Onesimus and Paul actually came in contact is not a coincidence. We don't know the details of their encounter, but do know it was one that bonded them together (v.10) and their relationship was life changing for both of them.

What about your "perhaps"?  Are there things happening in your life that make you wonder - "perhaps this is God's way of getting my attention."  The next time something occurs that you weren't expecting, stop and acknowledge that this is God's hand at work. God is not a God of happenstance. Everything He does is for a reason ~ we just need to be aware of what it is and what we are to learn from it.

Are there people in your life that are there "perhaps for a reason"? Possibly to develop your character? To strengthen your love, patience, perseverance, understanding, listening skills, humility, etc. They may enter your life for just a season, but know that they are they for a specific reason! Learn what God is teaching you through them and then pass on your new found knowledge to others.

Take a minute to look at your surroundings today. Perhaps you work where you work and with the people that you do for a specific reason. Perhaps you are encountering uncomfortable situations for a specific reason. Perhaps you've had people come into your life during this season for a specific reason.....

CHALLENGE: Watch to see how you can make a difference, as Paul did with Onesimus, in the life of someone else this week ~ be their "Perhaps the reason......."

Download this week's lesson from Philemon

Do As I Do!

                                
Have you ever done or said something that you wish you could instantly delete? Are you aware of just how many people are watching your Christian example? In Paul's letter to Titus, he emphasizes the importance of living a life of integrity, soundness of speech and doctrine - one that could not be condemned.

Titus 2:7 says, "In everything, set them an example by doing what is good."  What kind of example are you setting for others today? Do you have fellow employees observing your actions and responses? Are there young children in your midst that love to mimic what you say and do? Is there a friend or family member listening to your conversations and taking note of your deeds?

It's said, "If you want someone to act a certain way, be sure that you live that way yourself!" How do you want the people in your life to act and/or treat you? Do you find yourself saying - "Do as I say and not as I do." (ouch!) Why don't we switch that up a bit and make it our goal to "Do as I do!"

What can you do in regards to our words and deeds? What can you work on in order to be the example of doing good? How can you "do to others what you would have them do to you." (Matthew 7:12)

1) Your words should be uplifting and encouraging. We get plenty of negative feedback throughout our day, don't be a contributor. Research shows we need 5 positive interactions a day for every 1 negative. Who can you uplift and encourage today?

2) Your words should be wholesome and worthy of being heard. Don't waste them on foolish talk, senseless debate and stupid arguments. Words can help or hurt instantly and many can never be taken back.

3) Your deeds should be sincere and self-less. People know when we're faking it and can usually identify insincerity a mile away! Actions done for others with humility and with no expectations are the best received and the most rewarding.

4) Our deeds should be out of obedience to God and love for others. Jesus left this earth with a new command, "Love one another, as I have loved you...." (John 13:34) Some people are easier to love than others. Some people make loving them enjoyable and pleasant; others present a challenge. Either way, we are to love as Jesus loved - unconditionally.

Let me leave you with this as an encouragement to set the example that you want others to follow today:

"May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.
(2 Thess. 2:16-17)

Go be an example of uplifting, encouraging and wholesome words - Doing sincere and self-less deeds out of obedience and love :)

What Good is the Bible?

Some consider the Bible to be a collection of stories, fables, myths and human ideas about God. Some think it's just made up of rules and lists of do's and don'ts. What do you consider the Bible to be good for? If you've been following us through our Know the Bible study, I hope you'd be able to answer that question with bold confidence!

From the Old Testament, we learned about the origin, obedience (and much disobedience) and opportunities of God's people, the Israelites. We saw who God is and among many of His attributes, we witnessed over and over again that He is.."a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love." (Nehemiah 9:17).

In 2 Timothy 3:16-17, we are reminded of what the Bible is good for. "All Scripture is God-breathed, and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man/woman of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work."

1) God-breathed: The Bible is not a human book. Through the Holy Spirit, God revealed His person and plan to certain believers who wrote down His message for His people. Scripture is completely trustworthy because God was in control of its writing. The Bible is God-breathed!

2) Teaching: Because the entire Bible is God's Word - we need to read it, learn it and apply it. It is our standard for testing everything else that claims to be true. It is our safeguard against false teaching and our source of guidance for how we should live. What are you learning from God's Word?

3) Rebuking: (To find fault, to scold sharply) There are times when God's Word will point out faults in our life. Is that always pleasant? No. But is it necessary? Yes. How we respond to our "scolding" will determine our next step...

4) Correcting: When God's Word opens our eyes to areas that we need to correct and change, we know we can turn to the Bible to show us what to do differently. It doesn't just tell us what we're doing wrong, it gives us instruction and...

5) Training in Righteousness or "Right-Living". We should not use the Bible as just another textbook to increase our knowledge or to prepare us to win senseless arguments! It is a training manual for right and God-honoring living, so that we are....

6) Thoroughly Equipped for every good work. We must remember the purpose of the Bible is to educate and equip us to do good. The Bible is good for showing us and preparing us to do Christ's work in the world. Our knowledge of God's Word is not useful until it strengthens our faith and leads us to do good!

"For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do". ~ Eph. 2:10

So, what good is the Bible to you? Are you treating it with the respect it is due? Are you relying on it to teach you the way to live? Are you open to its rebuking and then following through with correction? Are you allowing it to be your guideline for righteous living? I hope so!

BLOG COMMENT: Share with us how you would answer the skeptic who asks - "What good is the Bible?"

Keep Practicing

Would you consider yourself a diligent person? Do you stick with something that you know is right even though it is difficult and challenging? Or do others' successes intimidate you and tempt you to give up?

Timothy was a young leader, the pastor of the church in Ephesus and a friend/mentee of the Apostle Paul. In the book of First Timothy, Paul presents pastoral advice as well as personal encouragement to his disciple, Timothy.

In 1 Timothy 4, Paul instructs Timothy on several things: "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young. But set an example in (your) speech, life, love, faith and purity." "Devote yourself to preaching and teaching." "Do not neglect your gift." and "Be diligent in these matters so that everyone may see your progress."

As we start a new year, I'm sure you have things you want to change about yourself, your life, etc. Are you determined to be diligent in reaching these goals? Are you visualizing what it will be like when you are successful? The average person gives up on their "resolutions" by mid-February! Resolve today not to be among the "average."

A person could double their production/reach their goals, in they began to practice what they know they should do instead of doing what they know they shouldn't do! (Eat too much, spend too much, sit around too much, talk too much, sleep too much, etc.) Success comes from diligently practicing the right things. Dr. John Maxwell shares pillars of practice that we should incorporate into our daily lives in order to succeed:

1) The right influence. We need to surround ourselves with people who will help, influence and encourage us. Paul was that person for young Timothy. He helped him succeed for God, influenced his behavior and encouraged him when he doubted himself. Who do you have in your life that is a help, positive influence and encouragement?

2) Your best effort. Paul instructed Timothy to "give yourself wholly" to the things he needed to do and be. Are you giving your goals your best effort? In I Timothy 4: 16, Paul encourages Timothy to "persevere ...because if you do, you'll save both yourself and your hearers." Are you practicing new behaviors and giving yourself incentives for when you succeed?

3) A clear purpose. Be certain about what you're trying to accomplish. Effort without knowledge is like speed without direction. In Timothy's case, it was important for him to be an example by how he spoke, lived out his faith, loved others and valued purity. His purpose in pursuing these behaviors was so that "everyone may see your progress." Isn't that why you want to change?

You only play well if you practice well. So, where are you on the practice continuum? Just starting out? At the phase of rapid progress? Have you already made great gains, now you're just fine-tuning? Knowing where you are, helps you know what you need to do. So keep practicing!

BLOG COMMENT: What's your biggest challenge in being diligent with practicing new behaviors?

5 Ways to Move into Your New Season!

This is one of my favorite posts by life coach, Valorie Burton and I wanted to re-visit it as it's a great reminder of the new season/new year we are entering. Hope you are inspired! Tonia

"To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven." - Ecc. 3:1

Dear Friend, As we usher in spring (New Year), I feel led to ask you, "Is it time to usher in a new season in your life?" There are few things more frustrating that remaining stuck in the old when it's time to embrace something new. Sometimes the new thing is an inevitable change or transition, whether it was something you wanted or something that was thrust upon you.

At other times, your new season is a goal you've been working towards, but now it's time to notice that the thing you wished for is here. You'll have to shift your thinking so you can enjoy the vision that has finally come to fruition. Whether your new season is related to your career, relationships, finances or health, consider these five ways to successfully step into a new phase of your life:

1. Say good-bye to the last season. In order to fully embrace what's new, mark your passage from one season into the next. If a child is about to head off to college, plan for a celebration to mark the milestone. If you are moving from one place to another, acknowledge it in a meaningful way. If you have lost someone or something important to you, grieve your loss so that you can eventually move forward in a healthy way.

2. Embrace the new season. Once you've said good-bye, say "hello" to what's new. Dive in. Consider the things you are able to do now that you couldn't before. If you're entering a difficult season, identify and embrace the help you will need to give you strength and perseverance. Acknowledge your challenges, but be sure to open your eyes and notice the blessings, too.

3. Ask, "What new habits do I need in this new season?" What worked in the last season, may not work in this new season. It's like using your old house key to try to open the door to your new home. What got you in the door there won't work here. Be flexible and adopt the new habits that will empower you to thrive in this new season.

4. Ask, "Who do I need to connect with in this new season?" Relationships matter. Don't go it alone. Reach out and connect with those who can help you and whom you can help. When facing a major change, it's your ability to connect with the right people that can make the difference between a smooth transition and a bumpy one.

5. Ask, "What vision am I moving towards in my new season?" Often a new season means a new identity in some way. Perhaps your role has changed, relationships have been severed, a job was lost or a move has put you in a totally new environment. You may have had a vision - and even achieved it - in the previous season of your life, but now it's time for something different. Your old vision may not work in this new place. What's your new vision now?

My challenge to you this week: Let go of the old. Take hold of the new!

What Are You Wearing Today?

Do you put as much thought into your "spiritual" wardrobe as you do your physical one? Before leaving the house, do you make sure you are fully clothed? Paul reminds the believers in Colosse, as well as us today, that others are watching us at all times. Sometimes all they will ever see of our Christianity is what we are "wearing".

Colossians 3:12,14 - "As God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness and patience. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." (NRSV)

Men are amazed at all the "torture" women go through to be attractive: hair manipulation on the head, face, legs, and body; exercise to keep the body at just the right weight or size; light garments to support that which nature refuses to do; and regular trips to the dermatologist, manicurist, pedicurist, and dentist.

In addition, we tend to analyze our food until eating ceases to be a pleasure and our bodies become a fuel refinery, adding the ingredients which our scientific knowledge says we need.

Ironically, after all this work to make the outer body beautiful, we then cover it with beautiful and expensive clothes, properly sized and colour coordinated. All this effort is put forth in an attempt to make us look better on the outside.

Whenever I begged for more clothes, cosmetics, and the things teenagers think they have to have, my mother always told me, "Beauty comes from within. Put on the garments of kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, and then bind them together with love, which matches all the colours in your garments. Then praise the Lord for all the good things He has given you, and let His Word dwell in you. This will put a glow on your face that cosmetics will never produce."

As a teenager, this did not satisfy my desires to be outwardly beautiful, but as the years have passed, I've learned to see the wisdom of her words.

As a growing Christian, which garments do we need to put on our shopping list first to be a well dressed Christian?

Prayer: Father, help us to see the inner beauty of a person, rather than their grooming and clothing. Help us to wear the spiritual adornment which shows that we are clothed in the garments of Jesus Christ. In His name, we pray. Amen.

Thanks, Ivie Bozeman from Thomasville, Georgia

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Can You Really Do Everything?

I think one of the most misunderstood and often over-used verses has to be Philippians 4:13 - "I can do everything through him (Christ) who gives me strength." This verse has often been used to affirm people's lofty, and often selfish, goals. It has been used flippantly and arrogantly by some; which leads me to wonder if they really know who first spoke those words and the context from which they came.

Philippians is a joy-filled letter from Paul, encouraging and rejoicing over the believers in Philippi. He wants them to know that his joy is not found in his circumstances, as he is in prison awaiting trial for preaching the Gospel, but in his relationship with Christ. He reminds them that their happiness is only contingent on the "happenings" around them, but true joy comes from God.

We can learn from Paul's attitude. Even if we cannot rejoice in our circumstances, we can always rejoice in the Lord who controls our circumstances! We must fix our attention on Him. He may not change our situation, but He will change us and that is even better!

In Philippians 4, Paul explains how he has learned to be content in any and every situation. He has experienced great wealth and great poverty. He has been well fed and hungry. He has known human strength and weakness. I would venture to say that not many of us are in a similar situation as Paul, yet we struggle with being content in what we have and where we are. But regardless of his surrounding and situations, he has confidence that he can do all things through the strength he's receiving from Christ.

So back to my original question - can we really do everything? The power we receive in union with Christ is sufficient to do His will and to face the challenges that arise from our commitment to doing it. He does not grant us superhuman ability to accomplish anything we can imagine without regard to His interests. Let's look at what we can do:

1) I can do everything God calls me to do. We have strength in Christ to do what God has planned for us to do for Him. Once we get past the idea that it's all about us and what we want, we can draw on this strength, power and wisdom, to complete His unique purpose for us . And in the end, God is glorified, not ourselves.

2) I can do everything God commands me to do. We need strength in order to live the Christian life - successfully. We are commanded to love, obey, trust, follow, rejoice, live pure lives, resist temptation, etc. Is this really possible to do in our own strength? Can we pick and choose commands that we will attempt on our own and others that we ask for help with? When we live a victorious life - through Christ's strength - God is glorified, not ourselves.

3) I can do everything God convicts me to do. I don't know about you, but this one requires alot of super-natural power sometimes. There are times when I'm convicted to forgive, confront, repent, surrender, practice patience and perseverance and I just don't want to. This is when I must draw on Christ's power to be able to do everything God convicts me to do. And when I do, I know God is pleased and glorified - not myself.

What is God calling, commanding and/or convicting you to do today? Know that you can do everything He wants you to do - through Christ's strength and power - not your own.

BLOG COMMENT: What has your "everything" looked like? Have you been trying to do it all in your own strength and perhaps for your own glory?